Dating a prude
But if you’re constantly parading around like you’re on the runway of the Victoria’s Secret Fashion Show, confidence can turn into unflattering conceitedness.
“A girl that is obnoxiously loud and acts like she’s hot sh*t the first time you meet her signals that she is a b*tch,” Mike says. Maybe guys would want to hook up with them, but more than likely they just can’t stand being around girls like that.
I am romantic ~ I'm Individual and not a follower of fashion, but I LOVE to do things together, and I cherish cosy nights in as much as nights out, going to the beach, museums, most places.
I am looking for a long term relationship, I think that everything happens for a reason and hopefully I am here to meet someone extra special so that I can be that way to him too xx.
That’s what your potential boyfriend would ask himself if you can’t stop bragging about that time you got stopped on the street because you were mistaken for Mila Kunis.
If you look anything like Mila Kunis, that’s amazing and I’m jealous of you, but play it cool and don’t act like you know it.
As Mike advises, “you don’t have to put on pounds of makeup either. Overly done, obvious makeup is not a look guys want to be around every day.” It’s all about finding that natural balance… Even if you're interested in settling down, getting around a lot tends to signal that you’re not looking for anything serious or exclusive.
“Many guys don’t want date a girl who is a prude, but also don’t want a girl that your boys have heard SEVERAL stories about,” Mike says. Once all that spreads, she’s not dateable in the eyes of most.” If you had a wild run of hook-ups and earned yourself a reputation, but are now ready for a relationship, then tone it down and lay low for a bit.
But, if a girl walks around looking like complete sh*t all the time, not showering, clearly kind of dirty, she turns guys off.” This is not to say you have to curl your hair into perfect ringlets every day and never touch a pair of sweatpants. You have a campus-wide reputation Just like you may write off a dude who has hooked up with half of your friends and is always seen bringing a different girl home every night, guys may be reluctant to date a girl with that reputation.
It’s much more annoying than it is attractive.” Would I have to constantly feed her ego?
Would I always be waiting three hours for her to get ready to go out?
“It’s true that you meet most girls in a party scene, but the ones that have always stuck out to me have been the ones that have talked to me about things other than the typical topics of conversation,” says Kiko.
“One time I met this girl at the bar [and] we ended up talking about politics for the first 30 minutes of our conversation. Even though we didn't necessarily agree on everything, I was impressed by her knowledge and confidence to talk about it with a guy at a bar.” He adds, “If you don't mention at least something that shows that you know that there is a lot more in this world than inside your college campus, then don't expect anything more than a one night stand (if that). You look like you haven’t showered since the finale of Gossip Girl “Damn, I want to cuddle with her and wake up to that smell all the time,” said no guy ever when you’re sitting in class, emitting fumes from a previous gym sesh because you forgot to shower… “Guys like girls that put themselves together nicely,” Mike says.