Dating site euphemisms
Amanda Hess, writing for Since "hookup" serves as a catch-all for everything from intercourse to passing out while spooning, the term could help mitigate the gender-based social pressures and stigmas attached to sexual relationships ...
young women are still shamed for going too far, and young men are shamed for not going far enough.
In theory, if all students adopted Holman's definition, they would all have a better idea of what exactly their peers meant when they reported a weekend hookup.
But is pinning down the definition actually useful?
"It’s too contrived." Faced with the pressure to write well and avoid clichés, it’s tempting, perhaps, to take the easy option and dash off something brief and ungrammatical, much as you would a text.
Still, the students "greatly overestimated the pervasiveness of hookups within the general student culture," Holman wrote in her report on the study.What if there are advantages to leaving the meaning ambiguous?"If you say casual sex, then I know exactly what you are saying," Amanda Holman told ABC News in a telephone interview. It's a way for them [students] to communicate about it but without having to reveal details." The fact that participants were divided along gender lines when it came to reporting their hook up experiences comes as no surprise. 45 percent of women said they hooked up in the last year, and "males expressed more favorable attitudes toward hookups,” the study's authors asserted.Alan Sillars of the University of Montana, was conducted on 274 college students at a large public university.They found that while 94 percent of participating students were familiar with the phrase "hooking up,” there was no consensus about what “hooking up” actually entailed.